What does “coping with the summer schedule” mean for your family? 

When the structure of the school year ends, what does your family look forward to? What challenges are there to overcome? Filling time, finding low or no-cost activities and interests — summer camps, summer school, toddlers to teens — it is different for every family. 

At a recent provincial conference for parents who serve on school councils in Alberta, a networking session was offered on the topic of “summer coping tips”. From camps to camping, water activities and gardening projects, to raising chickens, the discussion focused on finding activities for the family to enjoy at a budget friendly cost.  

The discussion on summer camps covered the challenges of finding suitable ones at a reasonable cost. They can be expensive, but worthwhile, if they are interest and age specific. Camps offered at the library, the museum, art gallery, YMCA, or even online “camps” and courses are some of the lower cost alternatives. 

Camping in general, or at the lake cabin, where possible, was identified as a favourite family activity. Spending time outdoors and staying off the devices improves well-being, mood and relationships. Even day trips to community parks, playgrounds, pools, walking trails and waterparks go a long way to enjoy the time together. 

“We are ALL about playgrounds, picnics and splash parks!” said one parent. “We also do crafts, games and free play as much as possible.” 

For some parents, working full time and leaving kids on their own at home presents a new set of challenges, including siblings arguing, sleep schedules, friends in the house and the use of technology. Solutions offered included the importance of having separate spaces, scheduled phone calls home throughout the day, and doing a Zoom call during the lunch hour. 

Technology was a big part of the discussion, the need to set limits, or scheduled screen time. Positives shared were using and access to parental controls on Apple, Google, and Windows. Also, the importance for children to have a tribe can include the online community, gaming group or remote friendships. Volunteer activities, non-profits, sports, art classes also encourage finding a tribe. 

Creating projects with specific responsibilities – like gardening, where children start, tend, and see results grow, was a popular idea to keep all ages occupied and interested over a longer period of time. 

And chickens, yes raising chickens was something that two families mentioned as a solution to keeping their children engaged and entertained, especially for those with attention challenges. Caring for animals and designated chores were also good “occupational” options.  

Continuing with learning during the summer months, academically, reading, writing and speech pathology was a concern for some, and keeping a structured schedule and resources was important. Setting expectations and keeping routines was mentioned as beneficial for the entire household. 

In the end, it is about finding a balance, and compassion for ourselves. Find a little “me time”, to feel refreshed with the kids. Use community and family support. Don’t be too hard on yourself —it will be over before you know it, and back to school again. 

Making time to be present with each other, whether a little or a lot, really is what matters the most. 

Happy summer!